Monday, February 4, 2008

Referrals are in!!

(Chinese symbol for hope and happiness)
The Rumor Queen nailed it on the head this time...the cut off for this batch of referrals was DECEMBER 27, 2005. The CCAA managed an 8 day batch! If they continue at this rate (evey batch being at least an 8 day batch), we could expect a referral in 9 months!! There is nothing to indicate that they will be able to continue with 8 day or more batches, but one can always hope!

Below is the announcement from our angency:

On February 4, 2008, Children's Hope received 11 China referrals.These referrals were for our 12/20/05 log in date families. We did not receive any Chinese expedited referrals in this group. This group of referrals included 9 beautiful little girls and 2 handsome little boys! Both of the families that received boys requested boy or girl in their petition letter. They are from the Gansu, Guangdong, and Jilin provinces and Tianjin City. Their ages are 7 to 15 months, one 24 months and one 28 months. These families waited 25 long months from log in date to referral. We expect these families to travel in about 8 weeks. One family that received the 24 month old boy requested a boy or girl 6-12 months old. The family that received the 28 month old girl requested a 0-12 months old girl but the referral fell within the CCAA age guidelines. This group of referrals began with the 12/20/05 through 12/27/05 log in dates. Congratulations to these families and all our China families who have moved up in line! Children's Hope International's next log in date is 1/6/06.

Saturday, February 2, 2008

Snow storm in China...(long)

The Southern part of China is being hit with the worst snow storm they have seen in over 50 years. Some parts of China that are being effected by the storm are not accustomed so such cold temperatures, therefore, they were very unprepared for this type of storm. Many, many people are stranded and without heat, food and adequate clothing. This includes, sadly, many of the orphanages. Some nannies have walked over 4 hours in these conditions to get to the orphanages. I felt I need to report on this, and put some information about it on my blog because as I look at the images on the internet and hear reports from our agency and others about the conditions in some of the orphanges and what they are doing to try to help I'm consumed with worrisome wonder....has she been born? Is she in one of the those orphanges without adequate heat and food? Even if we are still 15 months away from a referral, there is a chance she has been born. Most of the abandoned children are from the Southern provinces, so it's not that far fetched.
Below is an update from an organization called Half the Sky...they are very active in China. Don't feel obligated to read it all, I'm mostly posting it for my own personal reference. I want to be to look back and know if this storm is part of "her story".
(The little girl in the photo above is in the Anhui Province)

Update on China's Spring Festival Storms
Here’s an update on conditions and needs at the institutions we've been in contact with. We’ll provide information regarding these and other orphanages needing help just as soon as we have it. In general the needs are for fuel, food, disposable diapers, warm clothing and bedding. Prices are soaring because no goods can be shipped and cold weather has destroyed all winter crops. Half the Sky is responding to the emergency by getting funds directly to the institutions in a variety of ways.
Beihai, Guangxi – Although ill-prepared for the bitter cold, the institution has so far managed to keep the children warm and fed.
Changzhou, Jiangsu – suffered the largest snowfall in Jiangsu Province. Several buildings have collapsed. But the institution rushed to prepare for the cold and the children are fine.
Chengdu, Sichuan – is experiencing the coldest winter in memory. They need a large room heater, diapers, shoes, socks and winter jackets.
Chenzhou, Hunan – still facing the most difficulties of the orphanages we’ve reached. They’ve had no electricity or running water for 8 days and there is almost no possibility that power will be restored before New Year’s Eve (the 6th of February.) Because of the blackout, the hospital is closed. 20 children are ill and being cared for by institution staff as well as they can. The banks are closed so staff is contributing personal funds to buy food, coal and diapers. Prices are skyrocketing as all roads to Chenzhou remain impassable.
Chongqing – warm and well, despite the terrible cold
Chuzhou, Anhui - has both water and power. Only public transportation has failed. HTS nannies and teachers are walking to work. They are leaving home extra early to be there for the children.
Fuzhou, Jiangxi - lost power for a few days but now it is back to normal. The snow stopped a couple of days ago but now is falling again. The directors and HTS staff have gathered all the children into one big room to keep them warm. They’ve bought New Years clothes for the children and will have a party no matter how bad the weather. This year, however, the foster parents will stay home to keep the children safe. The institution has enough food and water. They want us to focus on those in more serious trouble and ask us please not to worry.
Gaoyou, Jiangsu – Despite incredibly heavy snow, the children are warm and well.
Guangzhou, Guangdong – This city is truly unaccustomed to cold and it is getting more difficult to find necessities to keep children warm. They ask for 30 space heaters and warm bedding.
Guilin, Guangxi - has two broken HTS heater/air conditioners in the Infant Nurture rooms and they’ve asked us to replace. The rooms are very, very cold. They ask for more soft matting for the floors and also snow boots for our HTS nannies who’ve been slipping and falling in the ice and snow as they come to work. They are so ill-equipped to handle severe weather.
Guiyang, Guizhou – has seen ice, snow and now sleety rain. They need disposable diapers and some help buying food.
Haikou, Haikou – Even sunny Hainan Island is experiencing a chill. The orphanage request a clothes dryer to keep the children in clean warm clothes.
Hefei, Anhui – reports that they have everything under control and the children are warm and well-fed.
Huangshi, Hubei – is in desperate need of disposable diapers. They ask for funds to purchase since goods can’t be sent to them right now. All heater/air conditioners have stopped functioning. They need quilts and warm clothes for the children. Several HTS nannies have fallen on the ice on their way to work and they need medicine to treat cuts and bruises.
Jiujiang, Jiangxi – had another heavy snow storm last night. Pipes have burst and the five boilers are broken. They are unable to bathe the children and are having trouble keeping them warm. They need quilts, bedding, warm shoes and space heaters. They need medicine for infant coughs and colds.
Lianyungang, Jiangsu – is doing the best they can despite the lowest temperatures in history. While they still insist we help others first, they do request winter jackets for the children, warm mats to cover the floor and bottles for babies with cleft lip/palate. The last item we’ll have to ship from Beijing as soon as we are able.
Luoyang, Henan – all is well. They are accustomed to the cold.
Maoming, Guangdong - This is the coldest, wettest winter in memory, but they have warm clothing and electricity. They ask for warm floor mats, 12 space heaters, warm blankets and some help purchasing food.
Maonan District, Maoming, Guangdong – In the sunny south, they have never seen this kind of cold and damp weather before. It’s been a month with another month in the forecast. They need space heaters. Local citizens have donated warm clothes and blankets for the children.
Nanchang, Jiangxi – asks for warm floor mats and disposable diapers. They need a working room heater. Their electrical supply has been sporadic and with only a small generator, they’re not confident they can continue to provide heat to keep the children warm.
Nanjing, Jiangsu – continues to manage, despite the heavy snows. They would like 200 children’s blankets but insist that we look after others with greater needs first.
Nanning, Guangxi – is experiencing its worst winter in 48 years. They are doing their best to weather the storm but could use 6 large space heaters,86 warm quilts for our Family Village and disposable diapers. Like many places, they are having trouble finding affordable food right now and would appreciate a subsidy to help through this difficult time.
Qingyuan, Guangdong – Again, the lowest winter in history. Constant rain. The children all have colds and sniffles, no matter how many padded layers they wear. They ask for 7 space heaters and 55 padded jackets.
Sanya, Hainan – all is well in this southernmost tip of China.
Shaoguan, Guangdong – needs disposable diapers for 27 babies. They need 3 large room heaters and warm mats for the floors.
Shaoyang, Hunan -has seen heavy snow every day for 20 days.There is sufficient water and, for the moment, there is power, so the children are warm despite daytime temperatures of -3C.However, 5 of 6 power poles have been downed by weather.Only one stands and the institution fears it will fall as well, leaving them without electricity.Much of the rest of the city is already dark. Children and caregivers continue to work and play together.High school students are cramming for exams and trying to ignore the cold.Everyone prays that the power pole will continue to stand. They request space heaters, warm clothing for 60 children and shoes.for the big kids.
Wuhan, Hubei – is having a very hard time finding affordable food, “even cabbage.” They ask for food subsidies for the Family Village, 20 space heaters and 50 warm quilts. Heaters are working but there is no water for bathing. The local community has offered to take children in for the Chinese New Year and the institution feels this may be the best decision to keep them safe, so their requests are only for the Family Village.
Wuzhou, Guangxi – is enduring bitter cold. They need warm mats for the floors, disposable diapers, warm clothes and shoes for the children.
Xiangtan, Hunan - has had snow for the past 10 days. The main water pipe is “broken again.” There is no water for cooking right now but they do have electricity, coal and blankets. They are still able to buy food but prices have gone way up. Not all of the HTS nannies can get to work every day. They are keeping the programs going as well as they can and make sure that at least five nurturing nannies are there with the babies every day, along with the institution’s caregivers.
Xinyang, Henan – is accustomed to the cold and all is well.
Yibin, Sichuan – It’s a snowy day but it feels like the weather may be getting better. They’re not sure. They feel the county-level institutions are worse off than they are so the ask us to consider helping others before them. They keep the children warm in the bright rooms that HTS created and they say everyone is well so far.
Yiyang, Hunan – still has electricity but the water has been shutting off and on. They have stockpiled food for the children. The greatest challenge is for the nannies to get to work. Because the buses are down, they must walk on icy roads.
Yueyang, Hunan - has no electricity. The one functioning power generator is being used in the children’s dormitory. They are relying on coal heat but the price has tripled in recent days. They are running out of food and have applied to the local Bureau of Civil Affairs for funds to buy more. Our HTS nannies have been walking for hours to get to work, often slipping on the ice, “even though they try to be cautious.”

Wednesday, January 30, 2008

I know it's just a rumor, but...

OK, I looked at Rumor Queen again. I hate when I do that. Anyway, she's saying that some agencies are reporting that the cut off for the next batch of referrals (due to arrive anyday now) will be December 27th. If this is the case, it would be the first 8 day batch in....I don't know how long, a long time.

Ooooohhhhh I hope, I hope, I hope!!!

Monday, January 28, 2008

Sooo excited!!


I just ordered this bracelet for myself!!! I've been wanting one for a while now, and I was in the mood to do something adoption related for myself today...so there you have it!!


What is extra special about this bracelet, is that all the proceeds for purchasing it go to Harmony Outreach, a non-profit organization in China that helps to save abandoned babies by ensuring they receive the medical treatment, therapy or schooling they need...then, hopefully a family.


They have what they call "Three Steps to Hope":


Step 1: foster care-the child is cared for in a loving home setting at Harmony Family House.

Step 2: surgery-the child's special need or condition is corrected.

Step 3-adoption-the child graduates from the program and is adopted into a loving family.


Over the holiday season, the woman who makes and sells the bracelet raised enough money to sponsor heart surgery for a baby named Baby Hope. Her surgery is now complete. She is currently looking into sponsoring Helen-Wang Xinrui, an orphan at Harmony Outreach. She is described as "having a sweet smile and loves to do performances. She does not like sitting in a chair for long unless she is drawing or reading a cartoon book." Too sweet!!

According to the designer, there is significance to each aspect of the bracelet.

Genuine Garnet Beads- The Chinese believe that an invisible red thread connects a child to loved ones throughout their life. The color red has become a symbol of Chinese adoption and safe travel.

Sterling Silver Chinese Family Symbol Bead- The Chinese symbol for Family is the focal bead.

Sterling Silver Ladybug-The ladybug has become a Chinese symbol for adoption for the past several years.

Sterling Silver Heart Clasp-The heart represents the love you will or currently do share with your special adopted child and your family.

Sterling Silver Hope Charm-This charm symbolizes the hope you have in your heart that you will find your child and your child will find you.

Can you see why I'm so excited about the bracelet?! It's being shipped today!!!!



WOW!! That was cheesy!


OK, this is by far not my most embarrassing moment, but I just read my own blog and couldn't help but laugh at myself. I don't know what inspired me to get all poetic on that last post(it was probably the wine I was drinking....glad I've put that little habit on the back burner for a while), but how cheesy was that poem??!!
I'll try to refrain from sappy rhyming from now on!!

Thursday, January 10, 2008

22 month LID anniversary!


It's been one more month of waiting,
One month farther from the start,
One more month of you growing safely in my heart.

One more month of knowing that I need to be strong,
One more month of feeling like this wait has been too long.

One more month of dreaming of your precious little face,
One more month of picturing you here..in this very place.

One more month of wondering, "When will it be that special date?",
One more month believing that YOU ARE WORTH THIS WAIT!

We love you baby girl,
Mom, Dad, Jacob and Benji

Sunday, January 6, 2008

Winter break, referral announcement (a little late) and welcoming in 2008!

The kids have been on their two week winter break, so I've been busy...well, distracted is a better word. We took them up to the snow for four days to start break off right. It was such a fun trip. We went with our very good friends, Mike and Lezlie Pachesky and their two children, Mason and Emma. I skied for the first time in years. Jacob snowboarded for the first time ever and did amazing. Benjamin snowboarded the first day, sledded the second and skied the third. He did great as well. Doug skied..he's a great skier..always has been. We are really hoping to get the kids on the slopes again before all the snow melts away...since we live in Arizona, that could happen rather quickly. Throughout the whole trip we kept talking about how "next year things will be a lot different". "We will have our little sugar plum and someone is going to have to hang out in the lodge at all times." "We won't all be able to squeeze into one car to go out to eat because the little princess's car seat will be taking up too much room." Stuff like that. It's fun to imagine her with us when we do fun things like this. It's amazing to me how, even our friends, think about her during this wait. She is so loved already!

We returned from our trip tired, but happy and all in one piece. The rest of the break has been spent sleeping in (one of our favorite things to do), going to movies, a few slumber parties, late nights in the jacuzzi..stuff like that. I was in the mood one night to do something "chinese", so the four of us headed on over to the Chinese Cultural Center for dinner. The food was great, and after we ate we browsed through the Asian grocery store. There's nothing funnier than watching the boys freak out over some of the seafood they sell there!!!

Then, on New Years Eve, I happened to hop on line to check my email and wouldn't you know it....referrals had come in!! They were at least a week earlier than anyone expected. They matched families with log in dates of 12/15/05 thru 12/19/05. Although my heart had a surge of excitement for the families who received their referrals, seeing a batch this small felt like a punch in the stomach. Something else about this batch that was rather unique was that the children who were referred were older than we usually see. For our agency, of the 6 families who received referrals (all of which were logged in on 12/19), 5 of them received children older than the age they had requested. In fact, one family who is from Arizona, received a referral for a 4 year old little girl. They had requested a child 0-12 months old. It was interesting to see...we will have to WAIT to see if this going to become a new trend. I kind of doubt it, but you never know. We probably won't see another batch of referrals until the first week of February. After that the CCAA will break for the Chinese New Year (Feb 7th).

Anyway, here we are in 2008! Maybe this will be our year! We will just have to WAIT and see!!